You’ve met
them. They look like normal human
beings, then they open their mouths. They
know everything. They never listen. They talk to you like you’re a
third-grader. You know the people I’m
talking about…the ones you avoid if you see them before they see you. If
they corner you they immediately start regurgitating their latest achievement,
generously sprinkling the conversation with their Mensa score…or they start
listing 1, 2-- no 3-- ways they could solve your problems—whether you want them
to or not. Why, do people behave this
way? Because they have stuffed their
brains with a self-expanding goo called “I-know-more-than-you-do.” This sticky stuff tends to plug their ears,
so of course listening to what you have to say is totally out of the
question. Fortunately, this goo also
clouds their vision so they don’t see you roll your eyes with indifference when
they are talking AT you. While it’s ok
for people to be knowledgeable, we should also be open to other points of view. After all, I suspect your uber-spectacular neurons
are firing on all mega-billions cylinders and you show up with more than a few
good ideas and solutions yourself—thank you very much. The difference is, you are smart enough to
know you don’t have to be right all the time.
Someone wise once said: “The need
to be right is a form of violence.” Violence indeed…cause those know-it-all
people make you want to slap them silly.
A Rich Woman
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